Our President is a very wise man not just in politics but also in maintaining a long lasting marriage.

Being the leader of the free world one has to have some thick skin.

Lord knows there are times when  President Barack would probably like to just go clean off on some of those folks in Washington. You can tell just by some of the looks he gives some of the politicians and reporters. It looks like he is saying in his head you motherf……. dumb so and so but nope he never lets it leaves his head.

That being said you also have to have or better develop some thick skin and wisdom when you are married.

I bet there have been sometimes when he probably would have like to have said something to Michelle that might not have been received too well but having the smooth skill of a Cool Hand Luke he probably just chills. So Using our President as an analogy and  in the spirit of giving I come to you  in good faith.

Men want to know how you can  add  longevity to your marriage?

Here are a five tips on what not to say to your wife.

I’m talking about things that should never leave your head.

1.Damn baby are you sure you want to wear that?

2. If I wanted someone to bitch and moan at me I could move back home with my momma.

3. How come you don’t wear your hair like that?

4. Do you really think you should have desert?

5. Ain’t you got enough shoes? (For you grammar nuts “ Don’t you have”)

I’m sure there are more things that I could add onto this list but I hope with just these five you’ll get  the gist of it.  So be like Barack and stay chilled.

Good Luck!

Written By: Larry D. Miller